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How to help mums facing childhood cancer

It can be hard to know how to help a mother when their child has been diagnosed with cancer. Offering the right help can make all the difference.

Whether you are a friend or family member, you can help support a mum so she can focus on her child and not get overwhelmed with having to handle everything on her own.

Some mothers may find it hard to ask for help because:

  • They may not know what they need
  • They may feel like they’re being a burden
  • They may see their vulnerability as a weakness
  • Organise a play date with siblings
  • Offer to pick up or take their other kids to school and/or extra-curricular activities
  • Offer to help or organise extra help with homework
  • Be the messenger (with consent from parent) and update the school community on the child’s progress so it’s one less thing the parent needs to do
  • Tidy the house
  • Help with the laundry
  • Mow the lawn
  • Take the bins out 
  • Maintain the garden
  • Offer to walk or feed pets
  • Offer to pick up or drop them off to an appointment
  • Ask if they need anything from home brought to the hospital
  • Offer to come and sit with them in the hospital (if permitted) or to stop in for a coffee

A mother will be grateful for the practical support. There is no one size fits all. Everyone has different ways of feeling supported.

Exploring  ways where you can support a mum from initial diagnosis to the end of treatment and beyond is important, because circumstances will change and things which were important in the beginning may be less important as time goes on.

Facing childhood cancer is hard for every member of a family. We are here to give you the information and support you need to help them through this challenging time.

For more information and advice, contact our support team of childhood cancer specialists

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