REsources: Living without your child
Living Without Your Child is a booklet created by Redkite social workers in collaboration with bereaved parents, sharing real experiences of life after the death of a child.
This booklet is part of a series, adapted from CLIC Sargent by Redkite. This series includes:
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Losing a child to cancer is an experience that changes everything. It is a loss that is deeply personal, beyond words, and different for every family.
Grief can be unpredictable, overwhelming, and exhausting and can change from moment to moment. It can bring many emotions to the surface, sometimes all at once.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Everyone grieves in their own way. This booklet was created by social workers who have walked alongside many families through their grief. The booklet also includes experiences of bereaved parents to support parents and carers when their child dies of cancer.
We hope this booklet offers gentle support as you navigate life without your child. Some parts may speak to you now, while others might feel more relevant later. Take what feels helpful, at your own pace.
Try to be kind to yourself and do whatever helps you get through each hour even if it is upsetting for others.
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Although your experience is unique, many parents have been through similar experiences. It is important to be reassured that you are not alone and others may be able to offer you comfort and support as you come to terms with the death of your child.
There may be times when you feel that you need professional help, the support of someone who has specialist skills and experience. You can talk to anyone from the specialist team who cared for you and your child, Redkite, or a trusted professional such as your GP.
Redkite is here for you, whether your child has died recently or if you have been bereaved for a longer time
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We’re ready to help. Please call us on 1800 REDKITE (Mon – Fri 9am – 7pm AEST), or fill out the form below.
Related resources
Coffee Groups for bereaved parents and carers
Regular virtual coffee groups for bereaved families
Coffee Groups for bereaved parents and carers
Regular virtual coffee groups for bereaved families
Managing special days and events
Significant days and anniversaries can bring expectations. Feelings and emotion can be intensified, when your child is going through cancer.
Managing special days and events
Significant days and anniversaries can bring expectations. Feelings and emotion can be intensified, when your child is going through cancer.
